As you all know I am a reality show junkie. I don't know why it sucks me in, but it does. As I was watching the Kardashians they were talking about the pit and peak of their trip. They said they did this a lot as they were kids. Fast forward to a week later as I was sitting in a meeting a friend told me about a family she knew that did their pit and peak of the day at dinner. Then in a book I am reading the guy talked to his kids at bedtime about the successes of their day. I started thinking and felt that it was "my sign". I told Wes that I wanted to start doing this at dinner with Landon and Kaylee and it has been PRICELESS!!! Landon is now starting to ask us before we ask him. I LOVE IT!
Yesterday, we were going to dinner with friends so I knew we wouldn't have that sit down family time so I decided to ask him about his pit and peak while we were in the car. We talked again about what each word meant and that sometimes we wouldn't always have a pit, but we should always find a peak of the day even if it was a rough day. He sat for a minute and said, "My good thing (peak) was helping Nana Irene get Isabella's shoes from upstairs. My bad thing (pit) was we didn't get to eat upstairs for lunch." I had to laugh because I was able to come to the conclusion that he likes to go upstairs at Nana Irene's house. He quickly wanted to know what mine were and as soon as he walked in the door he asked Wes what his were too.
I love two things about this...it starts a conversation about our true feelings about the day instead of just "it was fine". I think this ritual will be important as they get older, but it is precious to hear now too! The second thing I love about this is it is a ritual they can continue when they have kids. I love starting new things as a family!